How do I handle a buying committee where two stakeholders disagree?

Identify who controls the decision (economic buyer), then position your solution as the path to *both* stakeholders' wins. Never choose sides. Escalate only if impasse blocks the deal.

Handling Committee Conflict

Diagnosis: Who disagrees and why?

1. Economic buyer vs. user: Economic buyer wants cost savings; user wants ease of use
2. Business vs. IT: Business wants speed; IT wants risk mitigation
3. Two business stakeholders: VP Sales wants contact management; VP Ops wants reporting

**Your job is *not* to pick a side.** Your job is to show both get what they need.

Tactical moves:

Move 1: Reframe in their own terms

• User says: "This is too complex"
• Your response (not to user, to buyer): "The user team has 2 weeks to ramp; our CSM does onboarding in 3 days. Here's the timeline."
• User hears: "You won't be stuck struggling alone"
• Buyer hears: "Implementation risk is low"
• Same solution, two framings

Move 2: Find the shared win

• CTO wants scalability; CFO wants cost predictability
• Shared win: "Usage-based pricing scales without surprise invoices. CTO sees the architecture grow; CFO budgets accurately."

Move 3: Separate conversations (don't re-litigate in group)

• If committee is divided, pull the dissenters aside 1:1
• Ask: "What would make you comfortable?"
• Address that specific concern before the next group call
• Never reveal that someone disagreed; don't undermine them

Move 4: Escalate the right way (only if impasse)

• If two C-suite execs genuinely disagree (e.g., CFO won't fund, CEO wants to), escalate to *their* mutual boss
• Don't go above them unless they explicitly say "loop in my CEO"
• Escalation message: "We have broad support but one concern blocks the deal. Can we get a 15-min sync with [mutual boss] to confirm priority?"

When to walk:

• Disagreement isn't resolvable (fundamental values, not business logic)
• One stakeholder has veto but won't engage (IT refuses meetings but can block implementation)
• Deal timeline expires waiting for alignment

Bridge Group research: Deals with unresolved internal conflict take 40% longer to close and have 60% higher post-sale churn.

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