Executive Coaching Engagement Selling — 60-Min Training

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Executive Coaching Engagement Selling is a 60-minute training for ICF-credentialed executive coaches and boutique leadership-development firms selling 6-12 month engagements at $25K-$75K to CEOs, board chairs, and CHROs. Anchored in Marshall Goldsmith's Stakeholder Centered Coaching, the 2023 ICF Global Coaching Study (PwC), and Stanford Graduate School of Business executive coaching research, this session enforces seven non-negotiables: a sponsor-vs-coachee discovery split, the "I won't coach without a 360" rule, outcomes-not-deliverables framing, a 90-day satisfaction kill-clause, zero-discounting discipline, a paid trial-coaching session, and a standardized MSA.

Coaches who follow it close 6-month engagements at premium rates without ever competing on hourly fee.

Section 1 — Why Coaching Sales Fail (5 min)

Open with the hard truth from the 2023 ICF Global Coaching Study (conducted by PricewaterhouseCoopers, 14,591 respondents across 157 countries): coaching is a $4.564 billion profession with 100,000+ practitioners — and most coaches discount themselves out of executive work because they sell hours, not outcomes.

Three failure modes to name on the whiteboard:

• Selling to the coachee, not the sponsor. The CHRO writes the check. The VP gets the coaching. If you only court the VP, you'll lose to the firm that called the CHRO.
• Quoting hourly rates. The moment you say "$500/hour," you're a vendor. Marshall Goldsmith has refused hourly billing for 30 years for exactly this reason.
• Coaching without a 360. Without stakeholder input, you're coaching the coachee's self-image. MGSCC records a >90% behavior-change success rate *because* the 360 is mandatory.

Frame the room: *"You are not selling coaching. You are selling a measurable shift in how the C-suite is experienced by the people around them."* That's a Stanford GSB Center for Leadership Development & Research framing — executive coaching ROI is measured by stakeholder-perceived behavior change, not hours logged.

Section 2 — Sponsor-vs-Coachee Discovery (15 min)

The single biggest mistake new coaches make is conflating buyer and user. The sponsor (CHRO, CEO, board chair) buys. The coachee (VP, SVP, GM) is the user. Different conversations. Different agendas. Run them separately.

Verbatim Sponsor Discovery Template (60-minute call with the CHRO or CEO):

1. Sponsor name and role: [CHRO / CEO / Board Chair / Head of Talent]
2. Coachee: [Name, title, tenure, P&L scope, direct reports]
3. The business problem (not the people problem): "What does the business lose if this leader doesn't shift in the next 12 months?"
4. The stakeholders who matter: "Name the 8-12 people whose perception of this leader changing is the proof we did the work." (This becomes the 360 panel.)
5. Success measure: "If we re-survey those stakeholders in 9 months, what change in their language tells you it worked?"
6. The kill criteria: "What would cause you to end this engagement in 90 days?"
7. Budget envelope and approval path: "Is this CHRO-discretion or does the CEO/CFO sign?"
8. Politics: "Who, if anyone, would prefer this leader fail?"

Coach the room on the EMCC (European Mentoring & Coaching Council) Global Code of Ethics — the sponsor conversation is confidential separately from the coachee conversation. Never repeat coachee material to the sponsor. Never repeat sponsor material to the coachee verbatim.

End the segment by drilling the "What does the business lose" question. If the sponsor can't answer it in dollars, headcount risk, or strategic delay, the engagement isn't ready to sell yet.

Section 3 — The Outcomes-vs-Deliverables Frame (10 min)

This is the no-discounting moat. HBR coaching ROI research (the foundational MetrixGlobal/Anderson 2001 study cited in HBR and re-validated by ICF in 2023) found a 529% average ROI on executive coaching — but only when outcomes were defined upfront. Coaches who sold "12 sessions" got commoditized.

Coaches who sold "stakeholder-validated behavior shift on three targeted dimensions" got their rate.

Reframe every line item on your proposal:

• NOT: "12 ninety-minute coaching sessions" → YES: "Six-month behavior-change engagement, validated by Month 9 stakeholder re-survey."
• NOT: "Monthly check-ins" → YES: "Stakeholder mini-pulse every 60 days against the agreed change dimensions."
• NOT: "Email and Slack support" → YES: "Between-session accountability against the leader's chosen public commitments."

What to NEVER say in a sponsor proposal call (read aloud, slowly):

• "My rate is $500 per hour" (you just lost the engagement)
• "I'll throw in some extra sessions" (signals scope is negotiable; sponsor will keep pulling)
• "I can match what your last coach charged" (anchors you to the wrong number)
• "I do mostly leadership coaching, but I can do executive too" (signals the coachee is above your level)
• "I don't usually do 360s, but I can" (kills your methodology before you've sold it)
• "Let me send you a one-pager" (proposal-by-PDF is how you get ghosted)

CEB/Gartner leadership benchmarks show buyers of executive coaching evaluate methodology rigor above coach credentials when engagement values exceed $40K. Sell the process, not the person.

Section 4 — The Trial Coaching Session and Chemistry Call (10 min)

Never give away a free chemistry session to the coachee. Charge $2,500 for a 90-minute paid trial session — and run it as a real coaching session, not a sales call.

Verbatim Trial Session Pitch (manager opens with these exact words, on the sponsor proposal call):

Coach: "Before we sign a 6-month engagement, I want your leader to experience the work — and I want to experience them. I run a paid 90-minute trial coaching session for $2,500. It's a real session — they'll walk out with something they can use this week.

At the end, both they and I decide whether we're a fit. If either of us says no, you've still paid for a session your leader got value from. If we both say yes, the $2,500 credits toward the engagement fee.

I don't do free chemistry calls — they distort the relationship from minute one."

This does three things at once: filters out tire-kickers (sponsors who won't spend $2,500 on a trial won't spend $50K on the real thing), establishes the price floor, and gives the coachee a real taste so the close is a formality.

Do NOT:

• Offer the trial free "just this once." It poisons the rate forever.
• Run the trial as a Q&A about your methodology. Coach. Don't pitch.
• Let the coachee invite the sponsor to "observe" the trial. Confidentiality starts in minute one of session one.
• Skip the written "go/no-go" email within 24 hours after the trial. Both parties sign off in writing.

Stanford GSB research on executive coaching matchmaking shows chemistry-call-to-engagement conversion doubles when the trial is paid and run as real work — because both parties have skin in the game.

Section 5 — Pricing, Kill-Clause, and the MSA (15 min)

The math the room needs on the whiteboard.

The math (for a solo coach doing 8 concurrent engagements at $45K avg):

• 8 engagements × $45K = $360K annual revenue from coaching fees
• At ~3 hours/week per engagement = 24 client hours/week (sustainable; ICF max-load guidance is 25-30)
• Effective realized rate = $625/hour — but you never quoted hourly, so the rate is invisible to the buyer.
• Marshall Goldsmith has historically priced 1-year CEO engagements at $250K-$500K on a pay-for-results basis — the ceiling is much higher than most coaches charge.

The 90-day kill-clause (this is the trust-builder that closes deals):

"At Day 90, the sponsor and the coachee independently confirm in writing whether the engagement continues. If either says no, the engagement ends. The remaining engagement fee is not invoiced. The $2,500 trial fee is refunded."

This is counterintuitive — and it doubles your close rate. Sponsors who hear "kill-clause" stop negotiating on price and start negotiating on start date.

Common objections (rehearse the comebacks):

• *"Can you do this for $30K instead of $45K?"* — "I can do a 3-month focused engagement for $25K, or the full 6-month for $45K. I don't discount the 6-month rate — it would mean cutting the 360 or the mid-engagement pulse, and those are the dimensions that produce the ROI."
• *"Our last coach charged hourly."* — "I understand. The reason I price by engagement is the 2023 ICF/PwC study and HBR/MetrixGlobal both show coaching ROI tracks to defined-outcome engagements, not session counts. Hourly billing creates an incentive misalignment I'm not willing to take on."
• *"We need to compare three coaches."* — "Of course. I'd ask all three the same questions: Do they require a 360? Will they sign a 90-day kill-clause? Do they charge engagement fees or hourly? Those three answers will narrow the field faster than chemistry calls."
• *"Can you start next week?"* — "I can run the sponsor discovery next week. The engagement starts the week after the 360 interviews complete — typically Week 4."

The MSA standardization — your MSA template should include: confidentiality (sponsor vs. Coachee), 360 protocol, kill-clause, IP ownership of session notes, indemnification, and a no-poach of stakeholders interviewed. The EMCC and ICF both publish sample MSA language; use it as your starting point and have it lawyer-reviewed once, then standardize.

Section 6 — Commitments and Close (5 min)

Each coach leaves with four written commitments, taped to their monitor:

• My paid trial coaching session is $2,500, refundable on engagement kill, credited toward fee on engagement signing. No free chemistry calls.
• I will not coach without a 360. Every engagement includes 8-12 stakeholder interviews and a Month 9 re-survey.
• I price by engagement, not by hour. My published 6-month rate is $45K minimum; I do not discount.
• My MSA includes a 90-day kill-clause. This is a trust feature, not a weakness.

Close by reading Marshall Goldsmith's rule aloud: *"If they don't get better, you don't get paid. That's not a promotion. That's a methodology."*

Then send the room out with the sponsor-discovery template, the trial-session pitch, and the MSA boilerplate in the shared coach folder.

FAQ

Q1: What if the CHRO insists on hourly billing? A: Decline politely and propose a fixed-fee 3-month diagnostic ($15K) instead. ICF ethics guidance, MGSCC practice, and EMCC standards all converge: hourly billing rewards the coach for inefficiency. If they won't budge after one re-frame, walk — the engagement will end badly anyway.

Q2: How do I price the trial session if the coachee is a CEO of a Fortune 500 vs. A VP at a 200-person company? A: The trial is flat $2,500 regardless. The engagement fee scales — $45K-$75K for SVP/EVP, $100K-$250K+ for Fortune 500 CEO per Marshall Goldsmith historical pricing. Trial fee is a filter, not a revenue line.

Q3: What if the sponsor wants to attend coaching sessions? A: Never. ICF and EMCC Codes of Ethics both treat coachee confidentiality as inviolate. You hold three-way goal-setting and mid-point review meetings with sponsor + coachee + coach. Sessions themselves are 1:1.

Q4: How long should the 360 interviews take and who pays for that time? A: 8-12 stakeholders × 45 minutes each = ~8 hours of interview time, plus 4-6 hours of synthesis. Bake it into the engagement fee — never bill it separately. Stanford GSB research shows stakeholders who feel "billed for" disengage from the follow-up survey.

Q5: What about group coaching or team coaching engagements? A: Different sale, different MSA. Team coaching is priced per team-day ($5K-$15K) plus a 90-day retainer. Use the EMCC team coaching competencies as your scope frame, and don't blend it into 1:1 executive coaching — sponsors get confused on outcomes.

Q6: How do I get to CHROs and board chairs in the first place? A: Three channels: (1) ICF-credentialed coach directories filtered to MCC level, (2) speaking at HR Policy Association and SHRM Executive Network events, (3) referrals from search firms (Heidrick, Spencer Stuart, Russell Reynolds) — they're the highest-leverage source because every placement creates a 90-day coaching need.

Sources

1. International Coaching Federation, *2023 ICF Global Coaching Study Executive Summary*, conducted by PricewaterhouseCoopers, coachingfederation.org, 2023.
2. Marshall Goldsmith and Sal Silvester, *Stakeholder Centered Coaching: Maximizing Your Impact as a Coach*, ThinkAha, 2018; and MGSCC global practice records, mgscc.net.
3. Anderson, Merrill C., *MetrixGlobal LLC Executive Coaching ROI Study*, cited in Harvard Business Review and re-validated in ICF/PwC industry reports, 2001-2023.
4. Stanford Graduate School of Business, Center for Leadership Development and Research, *Executive Coaching Survey* and related faculty research (Larcker, Miles), Stanford GSB, 2013-2024.
5. European Mentoring & Coaching Council, *EMCC Global Code of Ethics* and *EMCC Global Competence Framework*, emccglobal.org, 2021-2024.
6. CEB / Gartner, *Leadership Development Benchmarks* and *HR Leadership Council* research, gartner.com, 2022-2025.
7. Harvard Business Review, *"What Can Coaches Do for You?"* (Coutu & Kauffman) and related coaching ROI coverage, hbr.org, 2009-2024.
8. International Coaching Federation, *ICF Code of Ethics* and *Core Competencies*, coachingfederation.org, 2020-2024.